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I'm not very inspired at this time, sorry if this post is not so nice. Today I came across, rather, crossed in front of me, a subway guard, waiting for the train to come. He was tall and quite slender, with drooping shoulders forward, almost chepudo. I looked at the pants of his uniform, he fell somewhat short (fishing as heard here in Spain) and I stopped to think that now the pants are longer than 10 years ago. Could it be because people grow. But remember that before coming length often accompanied by height. I was 16, but wearing adult clothes and I remember my mother just had to fix some trousers. Now there's a pair I bought, still long, below the ankle, which does not have to fix. Then I thought that now young people is higher and perhaps that are longer, perhaps because it is fashionable to drag pants - fashion or convenience or ignorance by not having to fix them? -, or perhaps because it is now fashionable thinness than ever and have your age and height you are looking for thinness, so if you are 13 years and you are petite or have 20 or 30 and you're tall, you have the same size because it takes to be thin. I do not know if I explain. If before (as I recall), more size, more length pants (not always), now regardless of size pants are always long. And I have not shrunk, mind you! What do you think it is only by the fashion to wear pants?

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be child only / a tandem

had long wanted to write on this subject. So long that my head has chewed up and undo it makes me so fast and easy as slow and difficult to write about it.

I and many other girls and boys, women and men are only children, we have no brothers or sisters. Sometimes one (or one) grows only with a parent due to a large age difference between siblings or due to other reasons because they are away from home and grow almost as singletons. There

the topic of spoiled only child, the "child of father" to give you everything you want or request. Often people ask you when you say your family and only child, you feel a special look. It is not contempt, I do not think it is envy. It's a look that perhaps by having seen so many times you can not forget and know what it means. Something like: "I was saying" or "good, another spoiled." As if any of your actions, how you act or behave, gives you away as a child only / a.

may be so. I do not perceive because it is myself who acts or behaves that way (in some people.)
I've only met a person who, being brothers, I say that only children had something special in the right direction. If you are only hij @ @, you know what I mean and weird and fascinating it is to hear something like that, how happy you do not feel judged because your parents are unable or choose not to have more children. Because, after all, is something you can not control, is the decision of your parents.

And as I break the topic, I'll keep talking about it.

usually associated only hij @ @ to be pampered, be fickle / and receive much attention. What good, right?, recicbir much attention, that your parents are with you in everything you do, behind you, holding you, loving you, buying things. But the truth is stranger than fiction, and not only for good.

When an only child, parents often tip you have no other son to attend, of course, want to take care of most and best to have what they did not have, because they only have one having all and the best, exceeding what they had and went, having a better life and easier. (This can also happen when you have more than one child, is not restricted to only children, with little difference that a child "only one chance" to do things).

What most people do arises is how much attention can affect and what can be wrong with being an only child. Generally seen as positive only, forget the drawbacks.

turns out when you have siblings (of a similar age who are still at home when you're growing), attention, time, scolding, desires, frustrations, demands, are shared, and if get along with a brother or sister, you can share your feelings, fights and ally or turn against one opinion or another paternal or maternal.
When an only child, is the only one that is trusted to come out good, to behave, to study, to be educated, only to be understanding and tolerant, but also the only that demand "so you know, the only to carry out the frustrated hopes and desires of their parents.
is the only one who hears the arguments, the only one who will cry when the other (the parent) are not. If mom or dad get angry, you're the third pillar of the family will tell you to what the other has said, even I criticize because they are angry or hurt. One comes first, then the other. If there is a bang or discussed in the next room, you're just you, with your car or your stuffed animals to hear. And you're in the middle: you can ignore, ignore, or try to mediate between them, which need a lot of left hand, a lot of empathy to know when and how to say what happens to another family member without hurting too. Or you can hear and be silent. If your mother is angry, if your father has problems (say, for example, the alcohol is not my case, and you miss a cake), only one child with whom to pay. Say you live in a little more things of loneliness that when another brother to lean on or to be reflected and realize that one is not sun @, that not only happens to him.

The service is good, but will cease to be when you become overprotective, when you have enough freedom to make mistakes to learn, because you advise what to do or not do (actually I are saying they expect you to do what they want to do, because they think it right and do not want that mistake).

Parents feel their children (as I recently told a father who had lost a son in an attack): laugh when your children are happy, they are wrong, and suffer when their children are ill. Are you an only child, can only suffer or smile at you. It is a tremendous weight to know that your parents suffer from seeing mourn or to be more quiet than normal.

can make you many gifts, all right, but of no use if you feel sad or feel that your life is a shit. Of little use if you see that despite growing up, you are treated like a child, with the same protection. Of little use if you can not communicate with them better than they wanted.

In some cases, parents decide to have only one child to give what they all have not been. But ... What do we mean with that "everything"? Of very little use to give a child books, clothes, backpacks, shoes, computers, games to play and hundreds of material things when what you could improve as a parent (education, love, morals) stay at the office because when you get home you're terribly tired and can not stand the childish your child I've heard more than one parent say "I'm looking cole starts to leave me alone!" (Think about it, children are not a puppet to be laughing when we play and be quiet when we're tired and do not feel like hear mourn or complain. It is very hard to hear phrases like that). Society is changing and it is very expensive to have a child (the reality), so Mom and Dad are working to keep the house and give all child / s. Where is the love? Where the talks and walks in through games that are taught to love, to respect themselves and others?

I'm digressing ... I care too much what is now the education of children and young people and change from one topic to another.

wanted to get to the point that parents unconsciously want their children do not comment the same mistakes as their children, they can study for a degree, they hit a. .. what one wanted and could not, that something abstract that is in the unconscious as a thorn that Rozart notes with a smooth surface. And it happens that when one is an only child, also occurs in families of two, three or more siblings, mom and dad put all their hope that their son will get there. Again, it is a tremendous weight, it does not succeed, frustration, though temporary, will be great and you feel bad (if you have a good self-esteem, that's true).

Parents are not to blame for everything, or maybe yes it is due to a weakness weakness or genetic tendency ... They are guilty of everything we do, what we say or we are, how we behave in older, but much influence as it is in childhood when we get more influence, are more susceptible, a white sheet on which is written, newborn dog to be taught to behave. Although genetically
have our own biases or predispositions, childhood is essential for further development. In fact, I heard from a psychologist that is the reason that many children adopted from foreign countries suffer after both developmental disorders.

Fortunately, human beings have a survival instinct yet and it has gone bad, tends to become stronger and fight to get and how you feel. This does not mean that it is not "marked" for years.

short, which again I digress, being an only child is not just being a spoiled child is suffering from certain deficiencies and disadvantages, as can be suffered by those who do have siblings, but in different ways.

Perhaps we are special, maybe not, but since then not only have received lots of cuddling.

As said earlier, I find it easy or very hard to talk about, because I have clear ideas, but mix them with new ones, as you have seen. I hope you understand that if you have or are going to have a child, luchéis against fatigue and give you know your son / s the resources to be happy and have a healthy self-esteem, confidence and assertiveness.

Grace As I know, this topic will come ... I hope your comment! hehe

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The sweet and happy Graciela it left me in a comment:

psychiatrist Carlos Delgado thinks about anorexia and bulimia are not diseases of silly girls who want to be thin. They are people with severe psychological disturbance. Very fragile. At any given time are in a conflict: they can not evolve psychologically and can grow as individuals, conflict is distressing. Decide to grow delaying its development. Require much assistance.

On the other hand, Tecau (Weaving Paths of Self-Esteem) Violeta brought us this one excerpt:

Unlike alcoholism and drug addiction an eating disorder is an addictive behavior. A woman with a TCA is addicted to certain eating and not the food itself. But food is not the problem. When a person be cured of an ATT must be willing to go beyond food and discover the true hunger behind the compulsive need to eat.

I bring them here in tandem because they are issues on which I have thought long and on which even had thought with others, with Violeta and other girls. He had not come to the conclusion myself, but there you have them.

And why bring them here? Because for me is important. It is important to realize that we hide feelings and ideas behind our "abnormal" behavior (I mean, altered) with food, whatever it (excess, loss, vomiting or other purging, just food, plenty of exercise, etc.).. Also under other behaviors such as sleep over not being able to stand or harm to oneself (self-injury, self-harm, verbal or physical).
for us all these behaviors are "normal" call me stupid because yes, I am, not try to study or do this or that because I'm useless for this, I'm a clumsy or stupid, and because, because I'm nervous and I can not stop. And there we were, not go beyond, and even when we question and try to cross the line and understand, we find it hard, really hard.
But have to start somewhere. And maybe after tens, dozens or a hundred attempts to realize that we alone / alone can not bring out our hidden head with eating and other behaviors ... and no abnormal or altered (also) but influences which make life difficult and miserable existence. Even though there are not constantly come and go. Are there. The cough may come and go, but that's up to our throats and our body recovers and goes.

"Addiction? I asked a lot and I was convinced that food and purging (vomiting, taking laxatives) were addictive. Now is when I understand that they are not alone, but the conduct itself. Why? I understand from my experience, although it may confuse me, they are by being perceived momentary or, for example, by vomiting or taking laxatives, because, otherwise, at least not feel so bad for eating so much. This is the case (I could think of and sometimes I can think of) where you control what you eat: the fear that gives you eat, go away, you can stay quiet, calm returns; feel a great inner strength, something that tells you you're doing well well and you're gonna get ("consequir what? I wonder. What is to be achieved with tight control of the food?).

When we realize these and other things depends on hundreds of details. It is worth noticing. Unfortunately realize, accept and ask for help are not the same thing, do not occur at the same time. But it can not be one without the above.

Well, right back to the "usual", which I round every week and that it ends up leaving, and in tandem, since it is related to the foregoing.

Anyway, I'm not going to keep spinning. For me these two texts were important; perhaps for you, for you who read me, so is, to serve something.

We are not rar @ s. Rare is it that we do not understand.
And as my grandmother, "to learn is to lose." Because, after all, involves recovering know, learn to shop and another chance, learn to listen, not to hurt, to accept and even love yourself.

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When I show you like and Dreams

discovered the talent of this girl through a video that showed me a friend. It was the day before yesterday and since then I can out of my head. Every video I see I like him more than the previous. Perhaps this is not the one you like (maybe not the one I like to me, I know when I have seen them all), but I do not leave you indifferent. Or maybe he did.



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illusions. "Disappear? "Come and go? Can we live without them? Grieve not

few weeks ago I read about the model Nieves Álvarez. She developed anorexia nervosa as a teenager and kept saying he wanted to be a model. Finally, after going through the hospital, with little support from her family and numerous tests, managed to enter the world of fashion. He says in his book, noting that his story, like all others, is not transferable, says he left the disease through their profession. Because the director of his agency made it clear from day one I had to eat in order to work as a model. So, little by little, with ups and downs and hard work, was eating in and out of the disease.
His case reminded me that of Mexican actress Anahí, the famous series Rebelde, that at some YouTube vided that can be seen from this blog, had he left his profession disease, because if not eating and recovering could not work and that was what he loved most: his work as an actress.

As they will probably more cases. And who has managed, for both, for the recovery and get your dream, congratulations.

But what about all those girls (and probably boys), involved in the disease, fail to realize his dream? How goes your illness? Do they lose the will to live because their dream is impossible? Do you go to the opposite side? I mean those with anorexia nervosa, if seeing his dream lost surrender and fall into the bulimia, if you decide to recover because they forget their dream, or directly commit suicide, that there are many cases, unfortunately.

Topics exist, there are girls who fall into anorexia because they want to be models or actresses, but can not be generalized to all people suffering from this disease, only a percentage of the total.
And when it comes to dreams, not necessarily have to refer a model or actress, we may be referring to a simple or achievable goal that eventually, it melts like clouds blown by air. The world is coming down because the reason you live, no sense no longer exists, and yet without it, you're lost. What do you do then? Are you looking for a new one? "You come down? Do you let go for not-know-what?

tremendous Dreams are illusions that make you vibrate. But when an illusion after another is coming down, away ... you can not live in illusion, because experience tells you suffer, it will not be met any of them, you better save cause you discomfort. But, of course, on the other hand, you know it is necessary to have any illusions, they are created humans alone because it needs to smile and move on. This is where the illusion becomes secondary. Maybe you try, you may not (fight for that dream, that dream), and if you try to be as a hobby, with his feet on the ground, with the same tenacity that if it were a dream really, because it is, because you need to try but are too afraid to fail again. Is it true? You dream it. What if it is true? Another failure. New doubt, the record stops, one day struggles, the other not.

What are the illusions that keep us alive? What about if not met? What we seek to not feel unsuccessful?

What about those who, sick of eating disorders, see failure after failure, despite their hard perfectionist? How do you fight this? Is it left a bitter life without dreams or goals, or is thrown out the window? (And pardon the expression)

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